How To Ask Yourself The Tough Questions And Choose Opportunities (At A High Frequency)

Happy Sunday ya’ll!

Today’s post is something that I am currently going through. It’s a process I find myself using as I get older. What is this process? Well, it’s asking myself tough questions. Questions about what I want and where I would like to go. Recent opportunities have come up and I needed some time to think about. Like really think about. Why? Because I know these opportunities will take time and energy out of me. As an introvert, I spend my time wisely. I want to make sure I get some solid experience in what I'm getting into. I also want to make sure it tunes into my frequency if we're talking in the Law of Attraction terms.  Furthermore I have remind myself why I am doing what I’m doing. There’s nothing worse than waking up and wondering what you’re doing.

With this being said, here is process that use to work through the tough questions and how to sort through it all. This is also the process I used when deciding that I wanted to become a theatre major. [Yes, eighteen year old Geneva did things that most young people wouldn’t dare to do.]

List What It Is You Want
You need to know what you want in order to manifest the life you want to have. I can’t tell you how many people I’ve met who wish or want something and never do anything about it. Thus it’s important to list the kinds of jobs you would like to have. For me, I’d like to live as a nomad. When I finish college, I am traveling the world, blogging, theatre making, and dancing. This means my frequency is high on gaining experience as a performer and connections with other theatre makers. I am also writing this blog to discuss topics I am passionate about and help the world. I am also learning how I work as a collaborator, especially with friends.

Remember that you might not know what you want at first. That’s okay. Instead, try something you’re interested in. That way you’ll know if there’s more options for you in the field you want to get into.

Put That Frequency On Blast
Yes, you heard me right. Turn that frequency up like there’s a party going on. [And yes I fully aware that sentence sounds like I was some crazy MC at terrible college party.] You might look a little loony but remember that this is your manifestations you want to come true. No one else’s. Sending high vibrations to the things you want in your life is critical to receiving.

Tell yourself that you love [the manifestation] and say everything as if it’s in the present. From real life experience, I can tell you that this is true. It is the reason for everything in my life.
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Doing this will help you stay in a positive mindset about what it is you want. Furthermore, it will allow you to make the first actions in your journey whether that is doing a marathon or starting your own business.

Formulate The Important Questions
Once you’ve found opportunities, it’s time to weed out the ones that are right for you. Use your intuition to navigate through the options that will lead you towards your desired goal. This is also the phase questions begin to formulate.

I tend to find that most opportunities are great to me. This is most definitely true since I’ve only been doing theatre for about five and half years. Therefore I have come up with some questions to navigate me and my intuition along.

The main ones I tend to ask myself are these:

• What would I like to get out of this experience/project?
• Will I be able to handle the situations given to me? And if not what healthy methods can I use to work through them?
• In what ways can I contribute to this project?
• Will I be able to work my collaborators in a timely matter? (This one’s important. If you find you can’t work with someone, find ways to work around it, or don’t do the project. It’s that simple.)

Pros and Cons List
After asking myself these questions, I make a pros and cons list. Yes I do the activities that a five year old would do. Basically.  I list out all the positive and negative aspects of taking this opportunity including how my weekly schedule will be and if my body can handle it. It’s important to know how you want your time to be spent.

As a theatre maker, I know the value of time like the back of my hand. Therefore I do not waste time. It's important to remember not to keep yourself too busy. We do need breaks every once and awhile. Also there’s only so much work that a brain can handle so don’t spread yourself too thin.

Decide What Options You Want and Run with It
Make sure the option you want aligns with your intuition and manifestation. If it’s not a part of the manifestation, then it’s not necessary. Furthermore, don’t wait for someone to hand it to you. Eventually the activities and habits you do become a part of you and your life. In other words don’t waste your time.
 
I hope ya’ll liked this post. Keep in mind that there are no right questions, especially what it comes to deciding what you want. It’s more in tuning in with your intuition and putting that frequency on blast. Remember that this is your life so live it.

Namaste and have a great night or day wherever you are.